Swinging couples and admirers looking for connections near Bakersfield
Seeking that special woman to join our relationship
Hi, we are interested in building a relationship that includes another woman between 30-55 to be a non sexual best friend /sisterwife for me and a second wife for him. Something based on trust, respect, and mutual connection for all of us. We care deeply about what we have, so we want to make sure we’re all completely open and on the same page, someone who wants to contribute to our relationship and life goals, not just take advantage of us. Our goal is to have us all live in one house. We love to go on random and planned trips to just staying home and having friends over or quiet nights just cuddling on the couch watching movies. If you think this could be you, send us a quick message.
Interests: Anal Sex, A Relationship, Ready Now, Polyamory, Couple seeking
Join Red Hot Swinger to message Eddienita
I’m a down-to-earth , adventurous, kindhearted lady who enjoys simple things, good conversation, laughter and spending time with my loved ones . i love trying new recipes , traveling when I can, and keeping a positive outlook on life .
I'm Single 5'7ft tall , i have a Clever Quick Witted sense of humor, i don't smoke, I don't drink, I like Dining, Outdoor Activities
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Join Red Hot Swinger to message I’m_Kathy
Hello! My name is Heidi.
I’m happiest when the energy feels right—good conversation, genuine connection, chemistry, and lots of laughs. Bonus points if you can keep up with my smart mouth.
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I feel like I’m standing at a really interesting point in my life.
I’m 38 years old, living in the Bakersfield region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 83. I'm Mixed Ethnicity with a Slim body shape and Black hair. I drink occasionally and I don't smoke.
Interests: Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever
Join Red Hot Swinger to message ciara
I'm new and just trying this out
I'm a calm and easygoing person who believes positive thoughts lead to positive outcomes. I treat others with the same respect and kindness I wish to receive
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Join Red Hot Swinger to message Blasphemyqueen
Married couple for over 20 years. Looking for the female to share our love with
Merry couple for over 20 years. Looking to fulfill a missing piece to share our love with another woman in a relationship
Interests: Anal Sex, A Relationship, Outdoor Fun
Join Red Hot Swinger to message SamandSteve
Just checking things out. Returning to the lifestyle after a long break and I’m unattached now. Looking for new friends
I love a big cock! Sucking one makes me happy! I’m outgoing when I get warmed up. Would like to meet my match for possible ongoing fun. Would like to have a 3some with 2 men or a couple.
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Looking for someone to have fun with. Fun for us can look like a day at home cooking together or day/weekend trips
A good road trip with a good playlist and unexpected/ unplanned trips (they make the best time and memories)
Interests: Outdoor Fun
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Discreet Encounters
Life makes me happy. Living makes me happy. Family makes me happy. I'm 62 years old, living in the Bakersfield region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 60.
Interests: Discreet Meets, Swinging
Join Red Hot Swinger to message Sindee
Hello we are new here and looking for other couples to have fun with
Seeing each other get turned on is always fun. We are both a little on the shy side as we are newish to this. Have been to one play party before and it was amazing. Looking for more fun times
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Join Red Hot Swinger to message Simon&heidi
We looking for couples to have fun with
We are laid back drama free we would like for other to be down to earth
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Join Red Hot Swinger to message Looking4female
Just looking to see if we find someone to join me and wifey in the bedroom?
We are both 31 years old and are both Mexican. From time to time we tend to get a little on the wilder side and look for someone to join us… lol so I guess let’s see what happens
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Join Red Hot Swinger to message Any
Married couple for over 20 years. Looking for friends to hang out with and possibly share some other activities.
Looking to add some excitement in our lives. We're at the age now where we could be more open with ourselves and explore a different side of us
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Join Red Hot Swinger to message Steveandsam82
If you’re looking for something genuine, respectful, and a little exciting… we’d love to connect and see if the energy aligns.
We’re a confident, down-to-earth couple who genuinely enjoy each other—and we’re looking to share that energy with the right woman.
She’s intuitive, feminine, and a little mysterious… the kind of woman who values connection, chemistry, and a touch of magic.
He’s grounded, respectful, and knows how to create a safe, comfortable space where everyone feels seen and appreciated.
Together, we’re playful, affectionate, and drama-free. We love good conversation, laughter, great energy, and moments that feel natural
We’re not here to rush anything or treat anyone like an accessory. We value mutual respect, clear communication, and real chemistry. If the vibe is right, everything else will follow.
Interests: Threesomes, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Short-term Fun
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